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Oct 14, 2026

Seattle has a name for how cold its people are

シアトルには、人の冷たさを表す言葉がある

Seattle has a name for how cold its people are. They call it the Seattle Freeze.

Travis lived there before moving to Fukuoka seven months ago. We talked today about why Fukuoka feels so different.

Here are the highlights of our conversation.

Yoshi: Compared to the U.S., what do you like most about Fukuoka? Not Japan in general, Fukuoka specifically.

Travis: The food, of course. Tonkotsu ramen. And the yatai (food stall) culture. But also the size. It's a big city, but it feels like a good size. I've met like-minded people here. Compared to Tokyo and Osaka, people here are more friendly.

Travis: In Seattle, people are very cold. There's a thing called the Seattle Freeze. People don't really talk to each other.

Yoshi: Really? I didn't know that.

Travis: Here, at a bar or a restaurant, I can talk to more people than I could in the U.S. Maybe it's because I'm a foreigner.

Yoshi: Because you're tall. You stand out.

Travis: Probably. But people here are more open to talking with me than in Tokyo or Osaka.

Yoshi: Why do you think that is?

Travis: Maybe it's the bystander effect. The bigger the city, the less you care about any one person. If somebody falls over, you think someone else will take care of them.

Yoshi: What about other American cities?

Travis: In LA, there are a lot of industries. Movies, music, content. People there seem more open to networking. San Francisco felt depressing to me. Everyone is there to make money. You drive past billboards for AI agents for SaaS. What does that mean to a normal human? New York is cold too, but a different kind of cold.

Yoshi: Seattle rains a lot, right?

Travis: It's more that it's cloudy all the time. Always kumori (cloudy). I had a vitamin D deficiency there. In winter, I drove 45 minutes to the office. The sun was barely up before eight and it was dark by four. I never saw the sun.

Yoshi: Many people in Japan work long hours for low pay and feel down. Maybe not seeing the sun is part of it. Sunshine affects your mood.

Travis: And the sun sets earlier in Tokyo than in Fukuoka. If you're a salaryman working 9 to 6, you barely see it. Here, you go to work and it's sunny. You walk home as the sun is setting. That's the way it should be.

Travis: Funny thing, I met a guy here from LA who said Fukuoka is too cold and rainy. I guess it's all relative. For me, this is great.

Yoshi: Do you feel the energy here is different too?

Travis: Yes. People here are energetic and young. My first time in Fukuoka, I walked past the yatai during a food festival. People came up to me, practicing their English. "Hey, hello, how are you?" It wasn't like that anywhere else. Definitely not in Tokyo.

Yoshi: Outgoing. Friendly.

Travis: That was one of my first memories of Fukuoka. That stayed with me.

Yoshi: So Fukuoka is a good place to be.

Travis: Definitely.

Where you live shapes how you feel every day.

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