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Oct 29, 2026

Holding a mixed room together is the hard part.

難しいのは、まざった場をまとめること

If you are ever in Fukuoka, you are welcome to come to my meetup once. I think it is becoming one of the best international communities here in Fukuoka right now.

It started in June. The LINE open chat is past 125 people now. More than twenty countries have come through it, and the ages run from the twenties to the fifties. There are reviews on my site if you want to see what it is actually like.

Here is the part that is harder than it looks.

A room full of people from different places does not mix on its own. Country. Culture. Age. What they are into. Where they sit at work. How good they are at basketball. Change any one of those and the interaction changes completely.

Staying with people your own age who like what you like is far easier. That is the comfortable version. The moment somebody has to hold a mixed room together, it gets heavy.

If this one is working, the reason is not the city and not the timing. It is that I have done it before.

I am 39. I spent 17 years in the United States, and I was never not in some kind of community.

I played on a basketball team there. In college I was the vice president of JSA, the Japanese student association. The team I started in San Diego began with people I met on the court. We kept playing, we got along, and I was the one who said we should enter as a team. We won the intramural championship. Later I ran a meetup there too.

At an American company I dealt with American clients, an American boss, American staff under me, and Mexican staff under me.

None of that was the comfortable version. That is the point.

It is still teaching me things, and that is a large part of why I keep doing it. I want this one to keep getting better.

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